Double Cs' Updates

Hi all! Been a week plus since my last blog? Hee... Been busy & tired that I hardly go online lately. Even go online, I probably spend less than half an hour & "lazy" to blog. Hee...

Plus sometimes forget to take pictures of my Double Cs so not many recent photos of them.

Let's talk about my Darling Cayenne. She is getting naughtier & at certain times, kinda of difficult to control her. Just few weeks ago, she made me so angry that I think I have to do something about it. Of cos at her age, she didn't purposely anger me BUT STILL, I have to teach her the right stuff right?

Well, I do not know if my method is correct anot. I just did it anyway. I brought her to Jann's room and closed the door. She was crying very pitifully BUT I DID NOT CARE! *Hard hearted* ;p

Her Daddy got a shock that I simply "locked" his Darling in the room & wanted to rescue her. I stopped Dennis & told him "We have to teach this young lady some manners from now." After a minute or two, I opened the door & Cayenne was still crying but not as loud as earlier on. Probably tired. I went into the room & closed the door. I talked to this daughter of mine. I talked to her sternly & firmly about her behaviour. Asked her a few simple questions. I twisted around some questions such as "Do you want to be a good girl?" She nodded her head. I asked her again "Or do you want to be a naughty girl?" She shaked her head. I asked her "Are you sure you want to be a good girl?" She nodded again.

Then the following few days, she behaved. But of cos, children are children especially at their age. I do not think they can remember by heart. So, after few days, she gets naughty again! & I repeat by bringing her into Jann's room & the questions again. Did at least 2, 3 times.

Now Cayenne behaves much better, I wouldn't dare to say this method is very good but at least my Cayenne shows improvement in her behaviour. Sometimes if she gets into her naughty actions again, I just ask her "Do you want Mummy to put you in 阿姨's room?" She would immediately tells me "NO!"

As for her speech development, I think so far so good. She can speak in some short sentences & in mandarin as well. Dennis taught her once. He brought Cayenne downstairs to buy things & the auntie asked Cayenne in mandarin where her Mummy was. Dennis taught her to say "妈妈在家". When she came back home, she surprised us by saying it loud. Haha...

After which we taught her to say "爸爸在家,阿公在家,阿姨在家". So funny! ;p

Last Saturday, I had a lunch gathering with my usual gang. I was planning to go alone. I prepared Cayenne's lunch & also told her that Mummy was going to "work". She didn't take me seriously, was still sitting at Jann's lap. Jann was reading story books to her. I told Cayenne again that Mummy was going to "work", she simply looked at me blankly & back to listening to Jann's story telling. BUT once I carried my sling bag, she immediately cried and say "gai gai". Held onto my thighs & forbidded me to go out at all. She was crying so pitifully. Daddy told her that Daddy would bring her go out. She wanted to go BUT I must follow. I went to the kitchen, she followed me, still crying. So no choice, I sms-ed my friends that Mr Chua & Ms Chua would joined. Lucky they didn't mind. In fact, they were happy to have Cayenne around.

We are trying on and off to tell Cayenne that Mummy needs to go out. But Cayenne simply disallows me to do so. We will ask her "Where is Daddy going? Where is 阿公? Where is 阿姨?" She will tell us "WORK". We tell her "Mummy also go work." She will say "No, Mummy home."

*FAINTED!!!*

One incident - I carried Jann's bag and said "Mummy go work ok?" She said "No. 阿姨's bag."
I carried my small hand held bag and told her "Mummy goes 买菜?" She nodded her head!!! This means I can only go downstairs to do marketing?! Haha...

Cayenne loves to call herself "Baby", wants me to pat her to sleep like the way I carry Cayden! Tired man. She now wants to eat Cayden's porridge, steamed fruits. Haha... Which is good. ;)

Updates on my Darling Chubby Cayden now...

He ah... Also getting more and more naughty! If you snatch his toy or anything he is holding, he would protest! Make so much noise. Cayden loves to scream & talk loud. His voice is really very loud. Haha... Oh ya, his laughter also the same. If you hear him laugh, you will definitely laugh too. ;)

Cayden starts to crawl now... Quite fast in my view cos he just started. Hmm... Seems like nothing much on my Darling Cayden? ;p Haha...