Cayenne is getting more sensible, listen to instructions more.
One thing Dennis and I are proud of her is her willingness to share. We've been teaching her to share. There'r some times she's not willing to share, but we keep reminding her and she listens. We'r very proud of her.
But I do worry about her being "bullied" in school cos there was 2 incidents that made me and Jann "heartpain". 1st incident - we were at IMM on one Sunday evening, Jann brought her to sit kiddy ride. But there was one kid playing. So Jann told Cayenne that she must wait for the kid to finish playing, then would be her turn. Cayenne said "Wait", she even do the wait sign. Very cute. BUT then when the kid finished playing, another older boy just simply jumped queue. My Darling Cayenne (maybe she still don't know or understand) said "Wait" and she waited there patiently. Jann told me after that, I felt so heartpained!
2nd incident is just last Saturday. We went to airport again to meet up with Vicky. Dennis brought her to the mini playground while Vicky and I chatted. After a while, I went over to find my Darling Cayenne. She was sitting on the "see saw" and there was an older girl came over and wanted to sit. She simply came over and wanted to take Cayenne's seat. Cayenne immediately got up from the seat. I was so angry and upset at the same time. I told Cayenne to be careful, there are alot of older kids. I was talking abit loud and happened that the mummy of this older girl came over to find her and looked at me. I simply ignored her. I know I shouldn't do that, but I was really upset to see my Darling Cayenne got "bullied".
I brought Cayenne to other side to play and there was this young toddler walking behind Cayenne. I immediately told Cayenne to watch out for this young toddler. I told my Darling "Baby, you have to look after the baby behind you, ok".
I'm not implying that I teach my Darling correct or proper. I just do what I think it is right. I told Dennis after that, we have been teaching our girl to share, must wait for your turn etc... Well, Cayenne does but other kids might not. So I worry that my Darling might get "bullied" in school. Am I worrying too much? ;p
Anyway, we will still continue our teaching and instill the right attitudes to Cayenne.
BTW, have I mentioned that Cayenne loves to call herself baby? Haha... Asked her "Who's baby?" She will point herself and say baby. I point Cayden to her and ask her "Who's is he?" She will reply me "弟弟"!!!
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